Sybians! – Spain

I used one for the first time Friday night! I sat on it for 44 minutes while twenty or so people watched and filtered through. I hardly noticed the crowd because my eyes were locked on Stray’s the whole time. The closest to time dilation I’ve ever been. It definitely did not feel like 44 […]

Touching / feeling / motion – Ottawa Canada

Nina Toubale, Nina Dellis First off, don’t get mad if I say something wrong to others side of things I’m just learning about bi, gay, trans, and all the terms as well as the lifestyle. I always have questions and I may offend someone when asking but not trying to. talking with younger bi People, […]

My ex dom used to say – Brighton UK BDSM – Brighton UK Strippers – Brighton UK Backpage – United Kingdom BDSM – Nina Toubale / Nina Dellis

“There’s many guys who want you. You’re amazing. I’m not good enough- you will leave me for someone better. Someone hotter with more money will like you.” It made me cry- every time. It made me feel like shit because he had such low self esteem and put all his insecurities on me even though […]

I’ve walked through fire and been reborn. (Bondage, Fetish, Backpage, Sex, Escorts, BDSM Date, BDSM, Strippers, Erotic Massage, Sex Services, Domination, Submission, Daddy, Baby Girl, Brighton England, Brighton UK) – Nina Toubale / Nina Dellis – United Kingdom BDSM

Flames dancing around me, struggling to take a breath, singing my skin, burning my lungs, dancing, writhing, trying to consume me. As soon as i step outside their grasp, they move and engulf me again. Others have been burned being too close to me, trying to help me. Not one person who has touched the […]

She Loved Me and She Spanked Me (United Kingdom BDSM, Leeds England, Leeds UK, Brighton England, Brighton UK, BDSM, S&M, Bondage, Strippers, Backpage, Escorts, Sex) – Nina Toubale

She wasn’t into BDSM. She had to Wikipedia the term. But she was a cop, so she was a natural dominant. From the first time we met outside our usual environment, when she pulled up to my car and said, “Follow me.” I was hers. My favorite memory is the two of us in a […]

The Switches Are Flicked (United Kingdom BDSM, Leatherhead England, Leatherhead UK, Brighton England, Brighton UK, BDSM, S&M, Bondage, Strippers, Backpage, Escorts, Sex) – Nina Toubale

It happened. I asked a simple request of a co-worker and he denied me for the sheer rebellion of the act. It was not a lofty request. Every fellow had already done this task for me, nearly every day for the past year and a half. “Can you please empty your trash into this bag […]

Party Etiquette (United Kingdom BDSM, London England, London UK, Brighton England, Brighton UK, BDSM, S&M, Bondage, Strippers, Backpage, Escorts, Sex) – Nina Toubale

I was taught early about party etiquette. It’s important because it’s how we all play safely and respectfully with each other. I’d like to create a discussion here with some thoughts about party etiquette and I hope others will add to it. The only way for us all to learn is to educate each other. […]